Condolence: Wanda, I am so sad to hear of Jay's passing. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I will miss him tremendously. I will be back in town on May 19th, if you need anything please call or email. Love, Greg

Condolence: Wanda and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I know you will miss him terribly. He was a wonderful man who deeply loved you and his family. If it makes it even a tiny bit better you know he is no longer in pain. God Bless all of you now and in the days ahead.

Condolence: To Wanda and the rest of the Jay Benzing family: Jan and I did not get to know Jay and Wanda very well or for very long, but we shared with them our common health and related coping issues. We offered as we could mutual support wand friendship through the group where we met. We were impressed with the good nature they both provided, and the devotion they exhibited to each other and the rest of us when we met and talked. Jay will be missed very much, and we send our wishes for comfort and healing to the family at this difficult time.

Condolence: My heart is so very heavy, I know Jay is no longer suffering and in pain, but his presents will be so missed by many. Frank and I were able to visit with Jay and Wanda, (surprise visit) two weeks ago, we were able to drop by, not realizing we meant to be there. They were just told that Hospice would be taking over Jays care. What a hit to my heart. I love Jay and Wanda as if they were my family, actually they were. We had the most beautiful visit, laughter, tears and hugs. I know how they are loved and that brings me comfort. They have so many friends and are such a great example of Love and Kindness. We have such good memories that will make me smile on the days when I'm sad. You will always hold a very special place in my heart, I love and loved you all dearly. Driving away, I knew I would never see Jay again here on earth, but we will see each other in Heaven one day and pick up where we left off. Sending a big hug for Wanda and the family, he loved you all so much. God Bless You All.

Condolence: My condolences to the family for your dear loss. Our Creator promises a time to come when he will undo all the sorrows we face today (Revelation 21:4,5). But even now, may you find comfort from the strength God can provide to carry you through this difficult time. -2 Corinthians 1:3,4.

Condolence: Dustin I am so sorry for your loss of your dad, I know how you feel... Just remember he loved you and that will never change. I love you buddy if my arms could reach that far I would be giving you a hug... Hang in there buddy

Condolence: Wanda, So sad to hear of John's passing. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Ben & Wanda Powell

Condolence: I will remember, with a smile on my face and a big tug on my heart, the time I was blessed to spend with Jay and Wanda. He always entered and left our time together with a smile, so I will honor his memory with that in return. " Well done, good and faithful servant."

Condolence: Condolences to John's family and friends. So sad to hear of his passing. Another friend from Calhoun High wrote to me to tell me he had passed. Wish we weren't so far away (I live in Connecticut) so we could say goodbye in person. May he rest in peace. Rosemary Lamanna-Galazzo Class of 1962- Sanford H. Calhoun High School Merrick, New York

Condolence: Wanda, et al ... it saddens me to read of Jay's death. I think back to his laughter and conversation - plus his artistic eye. He will be missed by many.

Condolence: Jay will be missed by so many - prayers and love to all of your family