Dear Rod and Sue, Gayle and I are so sorry for your loss. Losing a father is so difficult and I lost mine the day before you. Lionel Turner. As my wife tells me they are in heaven now meeting up with their wives who they both were departed from for 2 years, and are dancing away and enjoying themselves without any worry. They have what they both wanted. Hey, maybe our Dads are up there farming some land together. Our fathers were great men.